Lame Adventure 217: Inevitable Destiny

Following a Thursday evening of imbibing so much after work sake with my pal, Coco, that I was hallucinating entire scenes from Akira Kuwosawa films and hearing Puccini arias from Madama Butterfly playing on the imaginary iPod in my head (I vaguely remember calling her “Coco San”),  I returned home sheets and pillow cases to the wind around midnight.  Once inside my sanctum sanctorum, I charged my cell phone, took a shower, went to bed and instantly entered a coma.  At 4:39 in the morning I woke remembering that the charge was surely completed and indeed it was.  I loathe being an energy hog.  When I disconnected my phone from the charger, I thought something about my phone’s face looked funny, but I could not determine what that was.  I passed out again, and woke at 9:15 feeling refreshed this Saturday morning.

Unfortunately, today is actually Friday, and I am supposed to be at work at nine.

Me (outraged): How did this happen?

I picked up my cell phone, looked at the face again and realized that I had neglected to switch it from silent to normal.  What had looked so funny to me about my phone at 4:39 in the morning was seeing that it was still on silent, and the vibrate icon was visible.

Visible vibrate icon at lower left corner of phone's screen.

In the sober hour of 9:15 in the morning, I found myself feeling highly un-amused.  I returned my phone to the normal prompt and its alarm, set for 7:30 on weekdays, was determined to have the last laugh in this matter.  It started blasting at 9:16.

I wanted to retaliate by firing it across the room, but since it doubles as my main source of telecommunication, I went the non-violent route and only killed the alarm.  I emailed my boss, Elsbeth, who is on hiatus until Labor Day, and next called my friend and colleague, Ling, and explained the situation to her.  Tearing a page from my phone’s playbook, she was amused.  I told her I was not coming in and would take a vacation day.

Me:  Please transfer me to Edith.

Edith is a member of the Accounting staff that works closely with me.

Ling:  Do you want Coco?

I stifle a sake-flavored belch.

Me:  God, no.

After explaining the situation to Edith, I text my sidekick, Greg, though I am certain that Ling the Responsible acted as the messenger on my behalf.

Me: Not so much hung over as overslept b/c I 4got 2 put my phone on normal when I returned home last nite so alarm didn’t ring & I didn’t realize it until 9:15. Joy.

Greg: Oh well.  Enjoy the day off!

Me: Yeah, by default.

Greg: It was inevitable destiny.

The last person of importance in my life I contact about this matter is the one I most dread … Coco.  Whether or not Ling or Greg have informed her about my absence, I am certain that the tuning fork in her gym rat body instinctively knows I am missing in action.  As the dedicated showroom manager who would walk over hot coals barefoot with a family of live mongooses strapped to her back to get to work, I know that although she has had significantly less sleep than me, and her head is pounding as if a jackhammer smashing through concrete was embedded inside her skull, she is faking it perfectly while sitting on her marble throne reciting the following mantra through gleaming white gritted teeth:

Coco:  I hate that wuss, I hate that wuss, I hate that wuss.

I write her a 2,000-word epistle of explanation that lightheartedly concludes with Greg’s “inevitable destiny” observation. Coco responds with two words:

Coco: You suck.

I email her back:

Me:  Thanks Buddy!

I don’t hear from her again.

Moments later, I check this blog’s page views for the day.  25 thus far.  Eh.  I decide that this is a good day to publish another post, but I’m not sure what number of adventure I’m at so I check my site again.  I also notice that I’ve just had 29 more page views in about 29 seconds.

Me (thinking):  Huh, that’s odd.  Did something break at WordPress?

People start commenting and liking my Lame Adventure 216, when Milton and I attended the Alexander McQueen exhibit on its final day of viewing.  Erica, a goddess at WordPress, emails me:

Congrats! Your post ( has been promoted to Freshly Pressed on the home page.

You’re now part of an elite group!

Freshly pressed queens for a day!

Considering that the only other glimmer of recognition that I’ve won in my entire life was a Little Richard comeback album, The Rill Thing, from a radio station call-in contest when I was a kid; a record that could not be given away back then. How do I know this?  The radio station asked me if I wanted more than one copy.  I asked my mother:

Me (excited): Mom, they say I can have as many copies as I want of Little Richard’s comeback record!  How many do we want?

Mom (barking mad): We don’t even want the one you won!  Hang up the phone!

Good record, terrible font.

Editorial comment: The Rill Thing is a highly underrated quite good record, and it’s still available on both iTunes and Amazon.

I feel so honored to have infiltrated the Freshly Pressed group.  It’s a wonderful way to encounter so many of my fellow bloggers who have visited my site and have in turn, introduced me to theirs.   I wish I could thank all of you personally with sake and Little Richard downloads … but that’s not going to happen.  Yet, I’m so glad that it was “inevitable destiny” that I take this day off on Lame Adventures busiest day ever.  I feel almost as weepy as Miss America.

20 responses to “Lame Adventure 217: Inevitable Destiny

  1. congratulations, sugar! a three day weekend AND an award! good on you! xoxoxoxo


  2. This is so funny! It is great to be Freshly Pressed! Here’s a link to the post I wrote about my over-the-top response to that expereince:
    Congrats on the honor! Your post very much deserved it!


    • Hey Kathy, Thanks for sharing your reaction to being FP’ed! I recall reading an essay written by the playwright, Wendy Wasserstein, who had recently won the Pulitzer for The Heidi Chronicles. Excited, she called her mother with the news, and all her mother wanted to know was when she was leaving for Sweden. I thought your FP’ed post was excellent. I studied French for five years but could only master a single phrase, “Je ne sais quois.”


  3. I’m impressed—I’ve never been FP’ed or won a Little Richard record. (I do have a CD of Little Richard’s greatest hits that the grandkids love to listen to when riding in my car. “Well, Long Tall Sally, she’s built for speed, she got everythin’ that Uncle John needs, oh baby, yes baby, ohhh baby, havin’ me some fun tonight, yeah!”) Congrats!


    • Getting FP’ed came out of left field to me — and on a day that started with such a moronic alarm clock snafu! It was a lovely surprise. LTS wasn’t on that Little Richard comeback LP I won back in the day, but he was in very fine voice.


  4. Big League LA!


  5. Congrats chica! All of us here at New Ravenna missed you on Friday…


  6. Definitely deserved the Freshly Pressed!

    Anyway, my phone has done that to me so many times.. sometimes it just dies in the middle of the night and I’m left with my untrustworthy biological clock to wake me up.. it works 1/9 times.



  7. Welcome to the Freshly Pressed club! (Is it super obvious that I’m rubbing it in that I’ve been FP’d too? Wait. Don’t tell me.)

    Seriously though forget about the international interwebs recognition, I’m just jealous of your Little Richard album.


  8. Funny post. I can relate. I love Madama Butterfly, too. Listen to it a lot. Also like Akira Kurosawa. Creating a mash of the two, I guess you could sort of come out with M. Butterfly, which I saw for the first time the other night. I just love Jeremy Irons. The film was excellent.
    Congrats on the Freshly Pressed! Wow.


    • I saw M. Butterfly on Broadway many years ago with my brother. If I recall correctly, John Lithgow played the American, and I know B.D. Wong was Butterfly. It was very well staged. Thanks for checking in and thanks for the congrats. Getting FP’ed was quite an unexpected surprise.


  9. Enjoy watching your stats fly!! I’m having a Zero day.. those kill me 😉


  10. You deserve it! I’m very pleased to discover a blog combining funny and New York all at the same time!


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